The past few days have brought tremendous news for many, many families waiting for referrals from our adoption agency! There were 10 or more families matched with children (based on the waiting families just on our agency's adoption message board -- which obviously isn't every family working with our agency). This is a HUGE number. Recently there has been a lull in referrals where weeks would go by without any matches and then just one or two would occur. We have kept our excitement in check and knew that we had many, many, many longs months to go before it was our "turn" to receive a referral. This large group of referrals just made us jump up on the waiting list faster than I've seen in the past year! There was at least one family's DTE (dossier to Ethiopia) date really close to ours. The quoted time frame is still around 15 months from the time your paperwork (dossier) gets to Ethiopia. Our paperwork went on August 7th, 2009. Based on that -- we still have 10 months to wait. Based on what went on yesterday...we could potentially receive a referral much, much sooner!
Up until yesterday I hadn't thought actively about the wait. I was "fine" just going about our busy days...now I can't peel my eyes away from the message board and I admit, my hopes are waaaaaay up!!! I said to Jason last night a few days ago getting a referral seemed like some far off day...kind of like thinking of Jack's 10th birthday or Morgan going to Kindergarten. I know those things will happen in the future but I certainly don't think about it every day!
So we don't know anything...we do know that our social worker is absolutely fantastic about sending program updates and information. I just started reading another book she suggested a few weeks ago. So we wait...how long? We still don't know!
For those interested in reading more about the work our agency is doing for families in Ethiopia you can do so here: ETHIOPIA
Gosh. Excitement like that will ya, huh? Happy for you guys, though.
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